Are physiological tricks appropriate in this situation?

My gf dumped me and I know that she likes me and the only reason she doesn't want to be with me is bc im not her popular dream guy. But I think this is wrong! Is it okay to use psychological tactics to make her fall for me and subsequently realize that her train of thought is wrong? Or is what I'm doing is wrong? Should I just let her learn this lesson on her own? She only goes for popular guys and those guys have treated her like ****- 1) ditched her at a party and she ped out, 2) called her names, e.g.slut, 3) and treat her very aggressively, And 4) basically use her and just gain ual satisfaction form her and leave her.